Maverick: I do understand where you are coming from. I have worked with so many women that do dis there hubbies so bad. It would actually make me ill.
XW knows how I am about my Thunder, if I am upset with him I NEVER EVER tell her anything. She is my friend and Thunders so that would be wrong for me and disrespectful to both of them. I will tell her that I am angry at the most then I have to discuss the rest with Thunder and ONLY Thunder. I don't harbor anger so I don't have such pent up hostility that I need to de-masculate him in front of people. That is also why we don't get angry often we TALK to each other and we vent to each other we don't trash each other to the outside world.
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