Do You Believe Most JWs Follow Their Own Rules About Sex?

by minimus 27 Replies latest jw friends

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    We all know there are elders, MS, that are having oral.. some anal..

    I knew about the Oral -- hell I was one of them (still get the guilt feelings BTW about receiving anyway) but ANAL - I am a little suprised about that - I can not get the image out of my mind about a good JW elder wife taking it up the ass

  • Doubtfully Yours
    Doubtfully Yours

    As much of a firm JW as hubby seems, you'd never know it by what happens in our privacy.

    When the door of our bedroom closes, just about anything goes in the name of love, pleasure and intimacy.

    Geeeeeeeee, I let the cat out of the bag! Please don't tell anyone!!!

    DY

  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    I'm not trying to hijack the thread, but noticed something mentioned about a "local needs" talk. I just have a question: how do people know it's a local needs talk? Does the speaker present it as that? I haven't been so long that I've forgotten. In addition, how do they know who or what incident is being addressed by the local needs talk, since all this is supposedly confidential?

    Carry on.

    CG

  • minimus
    minimus

    Doubtfully Yours, I'm telling the elders AND now everyone knows you've got a "firm" JW husband!

  • dustyb
    dustyb

    hrm....butt sex rules. i'd rather not dig around in other witnesses bedrooms though =D

  • maxwell
    maxwell
    I just have a question: how do people know it's a local needs talk? Does the speaker present it as that? I haven't been so long that I've forgotten. In addition, how do they know who or what incident is being addressed by the local needs talk, since all this is supposedly confidential?

    I've only been out for a couple of years so I suppose they still do things the same way. Once a month, one of the service meeting talks scheduled in the "Our Kingdom Ministry" is designated Local Needs. So everyone knows when this talk happens. The elders are generally supposed to pick one of their ranks to give a talk on something that may be a problem for the congregation or give some encouragement for improvement in some area. Sometimes it's not a heavy subject and sometimes it is. I remember at times, a congregation I attended used the talk to discuss construction or cleaning projects. Sometimes it was about field service or meeting attendance. Sometimes it is used for "marking". If it is in response to a specific incident, you wouldn't and weren't supposed to know what or who was involved in the incident except by the gossip. On the other hand, sometimes these talks would be given on the on the same night that a disfellowship announcement was made and you could kind of put 2 and 2 together.

  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    Thanks Maxwell!

    CG

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    I don't have a clue, but I would guess yes and no. Now from reading on this board I get from some, that they were told JWs are not supposed to touch each other there with their hands or engage in mutual masterbation. I never heard that until I was out. If that is a hard and fast rule, pardon any unintentional pun, then probably 90% or more aren't following the rules.

    I tend to think masterbation is one rule many brothers and sisters, single or married tend to break. I know several sisters who were raised in the org and they masterbated as teenagers. All of them discovered, quite innocently, that certain mundane activities could bring big pleasure ao they engaged in those innocent activities a lot from that day on. Out of politeness I didn't ask them if they were still innocently activated.

    Heather

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    that certain mundane activities could bring big pleasure ao they engaged in those innocent activities a lot from that day on

    I am interested - care to enlighten me?

  • FlyingHighNow
    FlyingHighNow

    that certain mundane activities could bring big pleasure so they engaged in those innocent activities a lot from that day on

    I am interested - care to enlighten me?

    Ohhhhhh, I'll think about it. Gotta go do some laundry. Maybe later I'll come back and say. Meanwhile you can smile and let your imagination run wild.

    Heather

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