Are you a doer or a talker?

by Maverick 39 Replies latest social relationships

  • SheilaM
    SheilaM

    I am a doer-I will do anything for someone else. For example I have crocheted for many people in my life but all I have is a scarf and a hat LOLI feel guilty when I don't finish stuff but as XW said I get too many projects going. For example I have a project for XW that I still am not finished withmore do to $$$ than anything but that gives me major guilt.

    I have volunteered to type at school, for those talkers that will flunk the course without out turned in typed work.I do hate the a procrastinate but I am very productive in that mode. In work enviroments I am always doing and waiting for the talkers and the critics to get on the ball.

    Maverick: I am so sorry your daughter went thru that. E my sons GFriend was going to Young Life camp and her friend bailed at the last minute tooo GRRRRRRRRR

    Oh and I am still up for adoption

  • joannadandy
    joannadandy

    I'm a painter.

  • mouthy
    mouthy

    I think I am being honest when I say I am a doer....If I say I will do it- I will go to all lengths to do so....But If it is for myself!!!! I sometimes back out.. Hey Sheila I thought I already adopted you!!!!

  • xenawarrior
    xenawarrior

    Sheila !!!!! NO GUILT !!!! I'm still working on yours and Thunder's X-Mas gift fer chrissake !!! It's on my list of things to finish though !! Love ya girlie !!!!

    I am a "list" person. My family and some of my friends laugh at me and my lists and sub lists but when it comes to planning something - who do they come to ? LOL- Lisa has a list for this !!!

    And Ms. Jgnat----------- still looking for some of your stuff to read hon !!!!

    XW of the "slightly obsessive/compulsive" class

  • dustyb
    dustyb

    i'm all three. most of the time if i say i'm going to do it though, i'm going to get it taken care of. especially in my relationship. i've done EVERYTHING i've said i was going to do, and i fixed all of the problems that i've had to fix. so........

  • Carmel
    Carmel

    Married to a German, I better dam well be a doooooer! She's a little more relaxed about life now but for four decades it's been go-go-go! But, I'm not complainin! Been around the world. Lived in several countries, raised a great family and still gittin things done that benefit humanity! Still have time to come here and get it on with ya'all!

    carmel

  • Golf
    Golf

    The old saying is true, if you want to get something done, "give it to a busy person.'

    Guest 77

  • onacruse
    onacruse

    Doer.

  • Sunnygal41
    Sunnygal41

    Good Question! Hmmmmm, well, when I am impassioned enough, I am a doer. However, I do spend time talking alot too! LOL! Or, maybe the better word would be dreaming about doing the things I know I can't do right now because of committments and strings that have me tied where I am in life. In my own defense or to my credit, I look back on when I finally had had enough of life with the Dubs and the Ex, then I was outie...........and, somehow, someway, I've been able to keep going forward. I will do what it takes to stay going forward, and not slide backwards...................

    Does that answer your question????

    Terri

  • Sunnygal41
    Sunnygal41
    But when you ask what they have done to accomplish their goal, such as check out business courses at the local college or talk to a real estate person or morgage broker, or talk to a travel agent, they just look at you!

    Oh, okay, I've done all those things...........even went to look at a house one time..........then, things happened in my personal life that side railed me and I have to get back on course, but, the thought of having my own home some day is a dream I keep tucked inside me and I pull it out and look at it from time to time!

    Terri

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