Are you having trouble meeting ladies? If you are looking for cheap sex, stop here! We are talking about the men who were married and J-duds for a long time and are out of the loop! If this is you listen up! And ladies you don't need to be here so go away!!! (That's should piss them off guys!)
OK. lesson number one; RELAX! Don't be so tense! Women won't bite you...unless your into that sort of thing, and if you are I don't want to know about it! TMI
Lesson two; Slow down! If you are in a hurry they will know! And that is a turn off! Being patient is a strength quality.
Lesson three; Check out college classes on anything interesting. Such as a writing course or line dancing, or cooking. I think you get the idea. Take the class.
Lesson four; Go to the class and lay low for the first three of four classes. Don't stare! Don't act stupid. Act like you are really into the class. Be polite and all business.
After about four classes talk to one of the older or married ladies. But keep it light and simple. After the ladies have warmed up to you invite them to join you for ladies night at the local watering hole or other open place where they can feel comforable! And then behave! You are being tested so don't say or do anything that tells them you have a penis and want to use it!
Even if there is no one at the class you are interested in do what I say. These ladies have friends pal! And besides you should be willing to enjoy their company without looking to hook up with them. Women are fun just to hang with! If the ladies like you, they will make it easy. Hang back, keep your hands to yourself, and never talk trash! And if they bring up sex, duck and dodge! We are not in high school brothers. These grown ladies know what sex is. And never act needy or whimpy or talk too much! Let them play detective.
Let nature take its course. If nothing happens at the first class, take another one! If you give yourself a year, and are not a total smuck, you will have a nice lady friend to share your time with. Maverick