Heathen, Git, & Xena
I really don't think that you are qualified to comment unless you have served in the military with extended absences from home. Adultery is extremely harmful to operational efficiency. It can get people killed. It distracts them from the job at hand. The charges are seldom levied unless it creates a problem with operational matters. Having served most of my career in Tactical Airlift, where we were gone more than we were home, I've seen the terrible damage that can occur in a unit were adultery was going on. It can destroy the working relationships so necessary in a close knit military unit. I had just returned from a four month separation from my own family and had only been home a few days when I was forced to go on another two month rotation to Germany because another officer got caught in an adulterous relationship and had to be "pulled off" the rotation to deal with the personal problems that resulted. Was I pissed? You bet! If our commander hadn't filed charges, I probably would have.