I'm glad you're here, Kozmik (if you're being real with us, and I'm inclined to give you the benefit of the doubt).
they kicked me out, i wouldnt blame them for my OWN problems and go attacking the org every chance i get.
We'll see... if and when that happens to you. If you experienced it, you may change your tune. I didn't think I would. I thought I'd try to come back.
They set rules, you fuck up, your out...plain n simple.
This statement implies that there is NO favoritism in the organization, and assumes that human elders are qualified to judge others based on a brief judicial hearing. Those two assumptions are blatantly untrue.
Never mind the unfairness of having a whole bunch of people listen to what three men have to say about you, and also the fact that every person who is disfellowshipped (because of the secrecy involved) gets gossipped about later.
I am not saying that anyone who acts like a creep needs to be accepted by everyone. I'm just saying that people should be able to use their God-given reasoning abilities to determine who is and who isn't a good person to hang with. This doesn't need to be dictated by a committee or an organization, if the Bible statement is true that Christians "train their power of reason by use". Disfellowshipping by committee and the enforced shunning that follows is a control tactic authored by WT Society leaders to rule their flock by means of fear rather than love.