After reading Corvin's comments I was thinking of my nephews. The boys grew up and later left the Org themselves--one of the things they just recently told me was that they didn't like the way everyone talked about their Dad because he was Dfd it always made them uncomfortable--they saw through it all after awhile and have a relationship with him now. So there is hope...don't let them take that away from you.
your friend,
cybs