Trust DocWatson to provide comic relief for us!!! Keep em comin' Doc. I have this theory about laughter jiggling calories off me.............
Rem, I read your thread. That's all I'm going to say about it.
Annie, thanks, I'm feeling less creaky every day.....boy you should see my bruises tho! My left boobie is all busted up! <ouch!> Let me explain the comment about choosing our parents........you may or may not agree with it after that, but, I've read it in a few spiritual books and sites and it makes sense to me..............here goes:
Before we come to earth, we are spirits.......part of the all that is of the universe. However, for our growth, we agree to come to earth to learn lessons, and experience having a physical body. Before we go, we gather our "soul family group" around us and make a contract with them to work together for everyone's growth. We choose them to be our "best friends", "opposers" and "family members". We pick certain things that will make us develop qualities we want to gain.........sort of set the stage etc, and then, we "arrive" here on Earth, also with the stipulation that we are going to forget who we were before we got here..............just think for a moment about the pain and suffering you went thru........then, think of all the strength you gained from it, all the qualities you developed.............and there you have it........I really shortened it up, but, if you read The Celestine Prophecy and the other books in the series, you'll get alot of filler details........and, just to let you know, I, too, had an alcoholic father. He was abusive and frightening, but, who of us can say we aren't stronger for that experience? My therapists have all helped me to see the good side of all of it, as well as deal with and heal from the negative experiences.
FMZ, I understand what you said about being married having made you the man you are..........our mates help us grow, if we allow it. So, give yourself some credit too. You sound extremely happily married and I am happy that you are. It's good to hear about successful marriages........it gives those of us who didn't have such a great time of it hope for the future.
CodeBlue, I'm still trying to remember what kind of reading I gave NoDenial that night.........I'd be happy to oblige you, just let me know!
Terri