Junction-guy,
I understand your frustration, it can be normal and even expected to feel this way when hearing JW?s try and defend the Watchtower Society, as well as their "own" religious convictions. In time however, this feeling will diminish.
I don?t know where you are in the process of disassociating yourself from the Watchtower Society (mentally, emotionally, etc.). But when the day comes you finally realize you are right (and, on all levels) and the Jehovah?s Witness is wrong, you will at that point find yourself not getting upset at all when hearing their silly rhetoric. When you come to fully grasp this reality, you will have no emotional attachment when listening to JW?s "protect" their belief system. It?s almost like being insulted by someone who is obviously mentally handicapped in some way. How can you really get upset or angry with such a person? You feel bad for them, that?s all. You must consider the source, ya know? Just give it time. Personally, I find it entertaining now when I hear some JW posturing their Watchtower rhetoric. It?s often even comical to me. The only time I take it seriously is when I see one trying to proselytize some unsuspecting victim. Then, I jump in with both feet and there?s no kidding around at that point. But otherwise, on a forum such as this? Nah. Any genuine JW coming to such a website as this and spouting JW "beliefs", is either not even a JW at all (a strange phenomenon) or they are questioning the Society and may not even realize it yet.
My mother is still held captive by the Watchtower Society and all its "ideologies". I used to get upset when she wouldn?t even talk to me or if she would she would come off so elitist and pious. But years ago I came to understand that the child can grow wiser and smarter than the parent can. For many years now, I have understood that I am now the parent, the wiser one, and my mother is acting as the child. Now, I can?t reach her because she is too far under the mind control of the Watchtower Society. That's just the way it is. It can be very difficult if not impossible for the child (regardless of age, I am now forty-eight) to ?instruct? the parent simply because of the way the relationship has naturally developed from the beginning. But honestly, I could care less now if she is a Jehovah?s? Witness, or a Buddhist or a Muslim or whatever. I am that detached from it. If your parents are JW?s and you have left the group, then this process of knowing you are right and they are wrong will take some time. But ultimately you will get there.
Please feel free to share your frustrations here on this forum. I have been frequenting this board for a few years now and places like this are a great source of comfort and even inspiration for the former or struggling (questioning) JW.
There are few bonds that create a closer relationship and kindredness of spirit like that for former JW?s. I?m sure this is true for other former cult members of other various groups as well.
Steve