Just fing fabulous, this is what I have to look forward too!
I found the desire to "have sex" really wasnt quite as strong when I began "unchaperoned" dating
Experiences Dating after leaving.......
by nemo 38 Replies latest jw friends
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shotgun
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ApagaLaLuz
sorry, perhaps I should have said it wasnt that strong DURING THE UNCHAPERONED MOMENTS, you see because there are so many of them :) when you're chaperoned dating you think "crap here's a moment, better make good use of it"
at least I did anyway
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myauntfanny
Hi nemo, I love your avatar. Well, I never exactly dated while in, because I was young, but the JW boys I knew seemed to be a shifty, sneaky, conniving bunch who would say anything to get a little fondle and then blame the girls for it. I must say that I have not found Worldly men to be a bunch of bastards, and how come it's all the men on the board who are saying that? You know what a bunch of sweet little bunnies you are. Okay, you think about sex every 17 seconds (on average, which means some of you are thinking about it way more often than that) but what's wrong with that? Anyway, nemo, I think you'll have fun. Just don't be too polite. JW women learn to smile and be submissive and that can get you in trouble on the dating scene. Being raised a JW I just didn't have the words "no", "absolutely not" and "I don't feel like it" in my vocabulary, and I had to learn the hard way.
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ApagaLaLuz
I just didn't have the words "no", "absolutely not" and "I don't feel like it" in my vocabulary, and I had to learn the hard way.
Another good point. I forgot about that. Yes make sure you can be strong enough to be able to say these words if a sitution or a person seems shady to you, so you dont end up in a regretable situation. Good advice fanny
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myauntfanny
Good advice fanny
As my sister always says, take my advice, I'm not using it.
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Sassy
that is cute Auntfanny...
Just fing fabulous, this is what I have to look forward too!
I found the desire to "have sex" really wasnt quite as strong when I began "unchaperoned" dating
shotgun.. it didn't happen that way with me... I don't expect it ever will....
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shotgun
Thanks for trying to raise my spirits Sassy.....Hmmm...nuff said I think!
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Evesapple
I loved dating outside the JW's...and the best part was....no chaperones! I was already out....I didn't care who saw me...nothing more they could do anyway. It may be a great relief if someone did catch you dating.....it means sure freedom! Enjoy!!
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Sassy
yeah.. and if you had sex.. you didn't have to think.. I have to confess the next day either..
you could just smile and think about the evening before and how really really enjoyable it was....
Yes.. life is good outside the JW box!!