when you know you can handle the mistakes
When is it ok to have sex?
by Obviously Secret 49 Replies latest jw friends
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Sirius Dogma
So when do I actually KNOW when it's the right time
For me it was when my head, heart and body all agreed it was the right place, time and person.
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Obviously Secret
I guess I have to wait and see until I know heh. My confidence in myself in making decisions is pretty low lol that's why I'm so worried.
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Carmel
I'm thinkin anytime from Sunday night at midnight to the following Sunday night at 11:59 and 59 seconds.
carmel
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Big Tex
Nina and I waited until we were married before making love. I was 21 and she was 27. In retrospect, I'm glad we did. Not for 'moral' reasons, but because one of my fondest memories, and something that drew us together, was exploring and experimenting with each other. We were both virgins, and that put us on an equal footing. We sort of taught each other, we found out what we liked and what we didn't like. The first few years are a very special and personal memory for me because of that.
As for when it is 'ok' to have sex? I would say put it off as long as you can and when you finally decide to share that part of yourself with another, make sure it is someone you like, not lust after, not even love, but like. Sex can be the thing that makes you laugh and makes you cry. Sharing something so initimate should be done with someone you trust, someone you have a friendship with.
Chris
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Crazy151drinker
When is it ok to have sex?
When youre breathing *duh*
Big Tex! Older woman eh?? Nice
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Obviously Secret
That sounds best for me Big Tex. Thanks everybody im just gonna wait. Hate telling people I'm a virgin that's like automactically put to shame and have people talk about your for forever.
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Crazy151drinker
Obvious,
Hey, keep it as long as you can. It is really special. I might be a male pig but I have dated 2 virgins and I didnt do the deed with either one of them out of respect. Not that I didnt want to
Youre doing the right thing.
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GentlyFeral
Hmm. A checklist, 'cause it's Friday afternoon and I'm exhausted...
- Condoms/dental dams/rubber gloves? Check.
- None of the nekkid people present are jerks? Check.
- All the nekkid people present are willing participants? Check.
- All spouses/significant others are either nekkid or have given their permission, or both? Check.
GentlyFeral
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ApagaLaLuz
I might be a male pig
*bites tounge*
mu st hol d bac k from re plying t o this com ment *whew*