MarkFC : SO what was the purpose of all this ? ... You want us to know YOU ARE BETTER ? (ok, if it makes you feel good, I have nothing against you anyway) ... but thank you for the demonstration, where is the difference somehow ? A more sneaky strategy to get to same point : BEING HUMAN as a HUMAN BEING. What do you expect us (or me especially) to understand here ? ... Maybe you want me to change ? ... why ? ... Everybody have to be PERFECT ? What is perfection by the Way (not the IDEAL one - but the REAL one) ? Does it hurt you the way I am ? ... Let me/we be myself/ourselves please (at least when people express themselfves - and we are not stupid and can all read in between the lines, and we will survive )
What's the purpose? I guess its just that I like to make points like this, like other people like to talk about their subjects of interests. I make these kinds of points because I don't see other people doing it so much, therefore I think it adds to the conversation.
As for what the point itself is, I thought we already went over that. But I think on a board like this where a lot of people have been influenced by being a JW, self awareness is helpful. The most basic thing about self awareness in conversation happens to be being aware that its actually revolved around yourself, when the topic under discussion is really secondary. Since people here want to get over of the JW self, in effect re-creating themselves, you need to first be aware that theres the tendancy to support the self as opposed to looking at what that self is made up of and working with it. This is essentially a defensive attitude and just doesn't help if you want to change.
But you know what, I don't care if you want to change or not - it just so happens a lot of people here do want to change from being a JW or are in the process of changing. Do my posts somehow not allow you and others to be yourself? I am talking about self in general, but what you do with that information is up to you isn't it? This all started with a post I made which was not directed at anyone in particular, but you started questioning me about my intent. I didn't even say anything to you until you started talking to me directly, and somehow I don't let people express themselves or I think people are stupid? You are welcome to express yourself, even if its speculation about my intent - just don't expect me to be interested in that. I think you get to know someone and what they think about things by just talking about those things, so I am not that interested in talking about you and me, or what I think about myself or what I think about you. I don't really spend time thinking that way, to me this observation of human behavior is totally impersonal.
By the way, just in case theres any confusion I trust you understand when I say things like "you need to first be aware" I don't mean you personally, its just a manner of speaking. Now if you actually want to discuss any of the points here by all means, but don't expect me to reply to these random questions about what you think my intent is.