Im Sad

by Mona 26 Replies latest jw friends

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    Ignore Joker. He's a JW, and his reading comprehension skills show.
    He'll make an excellent drone-Elder, as he doesn't really care about the nuances of peoples feelings, and obviously doesn't listen too well

  • morty
    morty

    (((Mona)))

    DONT GO!!!

    You donot need to explain anything to no one......What can they ask you if your not there? right?

    My advice to you, just do the fade....Their twisted minds are going to judge you no matter if your there or not, so save yourself the humiliation and dont go my friend.....

    You have your boyfriend that you love, and that does not make you a bad person because you live with him.....Do yourself a favor and save your dignity by not going.....

    Morty

  • LittleToe
    LittleToe

    Morty:It's too late for her to fade, as they already have a JC formed.
    She CAN take control back of her own life, though.

  • Shutterbug
    Shutterbug

    Sassy wrote:

    I know how you feel Mona.. the elders are not there to help you like they say they are. I wouldn't even bother going to the meeting.. We understand what you are going through. I hope you hang around and get to know us.
    Mona, look at the Watchtower Society as one huge sales organization, which they are, and the elders are sales supervisors. They do not, for the most part, have the education or the incentive to help anyone. You have already been given some good advice so let me jump on the bandwagon, dont go.
  • atlantaspace
    atlantaspace

    Mona,

    Sorry I missed you in the chatroom earlier. I would like to be there for you as others have been there for me. My e-mail is [email protected] ....Talk to ya soon! Paul in Atlanta

  • Country Girl
    Country Girl

    <<<<<<<Mona>>>>>>>

    I am sorry to hear of your heartache! Sometimes, the worst tragedy can be a blessing in disguise and turn out for the best. I hope this is the case for you. But at least you have the strength and support of someone that loves you.

    Hugs,

    Country Girl

  • Big Tex
    Big Tex
    I would honestly recommend you don't meet with them.
    They will ritually humiliate you, as they ask lots of probing questions about your sex life.

    I absolutely agree. Mona the best advice I can give is to protect yourself. If you know the verdict is a foregone conclusion, then to hell with them. Let it go and move on. If you attend that meeting, you are giving away your own power. The power of self-determination. This is your life, and you must live it according to your beliefs.

  • Stefanie
    Stefanie

    (((Mona)))

    Sorry about your troubles.

    If you stick around you will make some wonderful freinds, if you dont I am sure you will make plenty anyways.

    We look forward to getting to know you better.

    Stefanie

  • shamus
    shamus

    Hi mona. Welcome to the forum!

    Yes, you will get DF'd. Life is about to get better, too. Jehovahs Witnesses are garbage. They're teachings are flawed from the very cornerstone out.

    Sorry that things are rotten right now; here's a little humour to cheer you up. cllick on the link:

    http://www.winternet.com/%7Emikelr/flame72.html

    I have embedded the page for quick viewing. It's what Joker is; a Watchtower (tm) troll. Remember that completely nutty people frequent here, so don't take ignorant comments like that personally.

    Welcome to the real world!

  • Special K
    Special K

    Hi mona

    Welcome to the forum.

    There are a lot of good people here who have gone through things much similar to you.

    Sounds like this is a Judicial Committe with one thing on their mind.

    Do what you feel is right and know that you don't have to give up control of your life to the Watchtower Society.

    You don't have to meet with them if you don't want to or if you think it is too upsetting for you. Call and cancel and take your power back.

    They have no rights over you, (((( Mona ))))

    Special K

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