LOL, there ya go namin' names again Glen...
Yeah, I'm not sure how I made A list. I think it was just guilt by association. I WAS one of those who would tell the elders if things were over the top... so, the people making the other people miserable were miserable too. Fortunately, by that time I'd eased up a bit and just tried to "not see." LOL. (probably because it didn't actually bother me, I just knew it "should" bother me.) God, what a mess all of this made for our "good memories."
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