I think the same question all the time.I always feel if he was a loving kind God,why does he need all those foolish ceremonies?Why does he need people sitting in a room for hours,spanking children.Saying words over and over...why make people feel guilty,feeling they are not doing enough for their God.
Religion sucks!
I'm spiritual and I do try to be a good person and raise my children to have good morals.I feel that is all God wants,for us to be thankful and be good people.
Soledad... sorry to hear,she said that to you.That was just cruel.