Hello hello!
I was counseled for taking care of my fiance' (now husband) when he was in a horrible car accident. My mother in law and I took turns watching him for the first few days, he was pretty banged up and since we couldnt be there at the same time, I didnt have a chaparone. They refused to marry us in the KH after that (they decided to tell us, less than 2 weeks before the wedding.) OH, and the elder backed out too he wanted us to "push back the wedding"! To top it all off, they accused me of sleeping with him while he was incapacitated (sp). I just cried and couldn't belive my ears!
Another time it was in the middle of summer and it can get very hot and humid here, I was maybe 20 at the time, wore a sundress, but it covered my shoulders, nothing to risque', above the knee though - one of those wrap dresses. The elder and his wife drove the group to their house and in front of the car group said that I was dressed inappropriately for service, that I was showing too much leg and then made me wear his wifes clothes. I had a full ankle length skirt on, her shirt came to my elbows (all black) I was sweating like a piglet! I had to roll the skirt 2 or 3 times to keep it from dragging on the ground! Of course in meetings though, I have seen their daughters wearing mini skirts and I am 8 years older than these girls!!!! hmmmm beleifs or fashion?????? This is the reason why I left ;) JK
Garnet