This is a frustrating post for me.
I had a little trouble with this one too, Peggy. Then I realized that I was reacting to the wrong thing; this isn't about religion, it's about a woman stalking another woman's husband.
If this was me, I'd be in that womans face so fast it'd make her head spin. Don't think she'd be getting up too fast either.
<Imagine cat fuzzed-out and spitting mad here>
Jean