Back a few years ago when I was an elder and had started lurking on this forum, there was a sister who moved in from another congo. She arrived DF'd and soon asked for a meeting with us to discuss her case. I was shocked at the way she'd been treated in the backwater congo she was from, and sympathetic because the circumstances under which she'd been DF'd were pretty tragic. She'd married a dub who later came down with a severe case of depression and couldn't/wouldn't feed himself. She was stuck waiting on him hand and foot except when something came up he actually want to do and he'd suddenly have "a good day." There was a son involved, a boy of about 10, who was conflicted by this whole thing -- after all, his father was the "crazy" one, but it was his mother no one would talk to.
There was no sex life, of course. With the husband not working, money was tight so they rented a spare bedroom to a single pioneer brother (no one from the congo, of course, could find time to pitch in and help with her situation). So the man moved in, and you can guess what that led to. But, hey, she was lonely and life was passing her by.
Not seeing any way to help her without exposing my "worldly thinking," I created a note on my computer. I read simply:
Support Group for Disfellowed Persons: Jehovahs-Witness.com
I left it on her windshield after a meeting one night. She missed several meetings after that and we later learned she had moved away. I alway wondered if she went to the site, spent some time there, and decided to move on with her life. I hope so.