Alot of how someone looks is how they carry themself. I know a lady and she is big but I never see her that way. She once told me she had problems getting health insurance because she was morbidly obese. I never thought she was as I never saw her that way.
Somebody can be skinny and uglier than somebody who has 30-40 or more extra pounds. It is all in the attitude. I just hate people's attitudes today. Too many people give up and don't try and blame everything and everbody but themselves. It is true. I looked in the mirror last week and thought "Damn" I need to work out harder.
I am tough and expect the best. We all have it in us. Too many people are lazy. There is nothing stopping us from being the best we can be. Look at Jared from Subway. He could have made excuses but he didn't!
If a person sits back and has an unhealthy lifestyle and takes offense at being called a fattie and does nothing about it then they deserve the title and should be proud of it! You are what you are, good or bad. Unless one holds a gun to your head to prevent change, you can change!
Get motivated to take action!!! You all had the power and energy to leave a crazy and oppressive system!!! Why not channel that energy into being healthy and something positive! If you are here it is because you do have tremendous inner strength! I KNOW you have it in you! The power to change and improve! We all can improve.
I mean my commentary with no malice. I just think differently and perhaps like most North American males do although some don't want to see it.
Ugly People
by Fe2O3Girl 95 Replies latest jw friends
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FlyingHighNow
Too many people are lazy.
Why not say: I encourage people to live as healthy a lifestyle as is possible under their unique circumstances? Never, ever call someone lazy. You don't have the insight to judge that. Most of the time you'd be dead wrong if you did judge. Hopefully you'll figure this out by learning from others. Otherwise it may take life knocking you down a few times before you'll realize that: until you walk a mile in someone's shoes, you can't know what their true circumstances are. Even then, sometimes people can judge themselves to their own detriment.
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LittleToe
Well put, Flyin!!!
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frenchbabyface
Don't cheat yourself. Open your eyes. If you think only super models and top actors and actresses are beautiful, you're missing out. Why live in a world full of "ugly" people when you can live in a world of beauties?
It never ceases to amaze me that very plain or even "homely" looking people can be the biggest nit pickers when it comes to the looks of others.
Yeah well Said Flying ...
but I agree with the Attitude thing ... it's very important and related to your psychic somehow, pumper yourself and be proud of every bit your inner and outside beauty (nothing is wrong with that)... you'll keep your head up (it change a lot of things already in peoples eyes !!! - I mean they can see how you feel - and they can use it against you or just feel stucked if they know you feel great about yourself = it reminds me of "Frederique" a very fat and so called ugly girl - only stupid jaleous gals would want to see her ugly because then, they knew they were the ugly once !!! ).
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Fe2O3Girl
I am fairly unique amongst fat people because I am not big boned, I don't have any medical problems, or "glands". I eat too much and I don't exercise enough. So, you can look at my arse, and make some reasoned assumptions about my attitude to life and my priorities.
I don't believe that thin automatically equals beautiful.
If I was a healthy weight, but really ugly, would that tell you anything about my personality? About my intelligence? If I am good in bed? A kind person? Trustworthy?
The point of the thread was to explore whether the most important, defining quality of a person was their beauty, which is generally defined by facial appearance.
Have you ever fallen in love with someone that you were not initially attracted to?
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Low-Key Lysmith
Yo mama's so ugly....she got a glass eye with a goldfish in it.
Yo mama's so ugly....she got peg-leg with a kickstand.
Yo mama's so nasty....she put on some Secret and it told on her.
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Golf
Ugly dispositions and attitudes is not my bag. I love beauty and beauty comes in many forms. No need to add to my comments.
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FlyingHighNow
The point of the thread was to explore whether the most important, defining quality of a person was their beauty, which is generally defined by facial appearance.
In my opinion, facial beauty does not define the quality of the person. I meet attractive people all the time who are not pretty or handsome. Yet they attract. I also meet beautiful people who are very empty and vapid. This makes them unattractive. To me, the face is not what attracts. If this were so, every beautiful or handsome face would attract each of us. We all know handsome people that just aren't our types. When you say, "He's not my type." What you mean is: he does nothing for me. He does not attract me. There's no chemistry."
This is the truth: Brad Pitt doesn't do a thing for me. However, if John Candy were alive and we met, I'm certain I'd get waves of goosebumps and feel faint. Which one of these guys has/had a prettier face? Brad does. But Brad is not attractive--------to me anyway.
A lot of beautiful looking people are jerks. Beauty does not guarentee a nice, good or even interesting person. Ugliness doesn't guarentee someone won't sweep you off your feet either.
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LittleToe
First impressions count and I suspect that you are more likely to take a second glance at a pretty face than an ugly one. That's notwithstanding the long-term approach.
I'm not saying it's right or wrong, it just IS (Darwin at work).
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FlyingHighNow
First impressions count and I suspect that you are more likely to take a second glance at a pretty face than an ugly one. That's notwithstanding the long-term approach.
I'm not saying it's right or wrong, it just IS (Darwin at work).
IMHO to say contrary is to go against all the evidence.Ah Ross, you're just sayin' that because you are one of the pretty faces.