I used to DJ weddings and some JW parties. It was so hard to pick music for these events and I still got in trouble. No matter what I played somebody bitched. It was either demonized, dirty or just too darn loud.
The last party I did(sevearl years ago) I decided to push the boundries and see what I could get away with. I got away with a couple of techno dance tunes, I guess because there were no lyrics, but I got funny looks from the "older" ones. But later on it happened: One minute into "Right Said Fred's" "I'm Too Sexy" the elders descended and pulled the plug on the music....literally. They cut the song off right there. End of the dancing, sorry, party's over, go home.