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Can you ever forgive your family for shunning you?
by jeanniebeanz 25 Replies latest jw friends
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heatherg
Hi jeannie... I've forgiven my brother. Never my parents though. Holier than thou crap that they have. I could really go on and vent, not gonna let it get to me. If my parents ever did come around, we would never have a child/parent relationship again(not that we ever did). I would treat them as acquaintances, you know, 'how's the weather' type of thing. hg
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AlmostAtheist
Yeah, like Gary said. If they quit, sure. We all did dumb things as cult members. If they take off the blinders, I wouldn't hold their behavior while still "in" against them.
For now, hard to say. I guess I don't currently hold it against them personally. But they're just my inlaws. If it was my parents, or my children, I think my attitude would be different. You expect more from your own Mommy, Daddy, kids.
Dave
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franklin J
the relatives who shun me are so dysfunctional that I think they are using the religon as an excuse to just be nasty.
I do not care. Not having them in my life is not even apparent....
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whyamihere
I can forgive them of shunning me!
However, I could not forgive myself if I were to shun them!
Brooke
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