If anyone needs to be blamed it is the Queen herself. Charles and Camilla loved each other long before Diana was brought on the scene. The Queen chose Diana, who was nothing more than an incubator to produce an heir to the thrown. Charles was known to be unfaithful, but Diana was not a Saint in being faithful either. Most would say that she was unfaithful only because Charles was and she was driven to it. Look how the Queen was when Diana died. She won't be a Camilla and Charles wedding at the registry office. The Queen is not happy that Camilla may become Queen. Diana would probably be alive today, if not for the Queen insisting Diana marry Charles. Being from Canada, the Queen's on our Money so I can voice my opinion and distaste for the Monarcy.