by belu 22 Replies latest social relationships
She has done similar things in the past and always got away with it
She isn't getting away with anything. She can fool some of the people some of the time but not everyone forever. And remember that what goes around comes around. Instead of being all passive agressive about it, why don't you just realize that this will all resolve itself. You can call it jugement day or you can call it karma, whatever.
Chill and move on with your life.
Sherry
Sorry for the pain, dude.
You though are the one continuing it. You could just let it go. I'd be willing to bet that in the near future she do something else that pisses you off and this will continue. It will continue until you let it go.
TimB
Why would you want someone like that back? Let it go. People like that always get what's coming to them and why would you want to surround yourself with that bad karma coming her way. Stay as far away as possible from her. Have you heard that saying? - The best revenge is living a good life. Having all of this anger is going to eat you up inside, try to realize that everybody in this world gets their heart broken at least once.
My ex wife wanted to get remarried. Long story short, she told lies about me. Now, in reality, I don't care what she does, but I did not like being lied about. So I contacted her PO and her book study conductor.
They flat out told me, that though there was no proof whatsoever, simply the fact that I was inactive, and she was, they would take her side every time.
As far as they were concerned, she was free to marry in the hall.
The bottom line is, people are going to do what they want, when they want, and to whom they want, and there is nothing we can do about it.
Max D--
You write very well for a six year old. They must have excellent schools where you live.
If you really want to get back at her post a bunch of naked pics of her on the internet... first you should forge an email to yourself claiming to be from her that gives you permission! Fair is fair right!
SERENITY NOW.... If your comment is how I write, it was intended for children like you ... how many languages do you speak or write?
As to the website .. I have losts of time on my hands (semi retired) and for the past year I have been learning how to build websites, this is good practice....
I have gotten over it ... but all she had to do was get the annulment of the marriage and go on with her life. She did not have to create lies and accuse me of committing adultery for her own personnel gain. Would any of you accept lies being sad about you? I am just looking for the truth to be told, once she admits to her lies the website comes off.........
As to proof she has lied, I have them and they are being presented to the Watchtower bible and tract society of the Philippines, once they act on my proof the website comes off....
Do we not have the right to expose liars?
Belu,
What is your true agenda in this? This woman is a ?true Jehovah?s Witness? by no means. She is very marginal at best. You evidently are not a Jehovah?s Witness so what do you care.
I read some of the emails from your site. It sounds like you knew what you were getting into, and if you didn?t know you had your head up you?re a$$.
This sounds like a control issue! You lost- you aren?t winning dude - let it go. What benefit are you going to get out of this? Is your ego is so small and fragile that this what you spend your time on? Get on with your life man! Stalk someone else!
I had an ex wife (Baptist, not a witness) that spread lies about me, but I didn?t have to broadcast to everyone about it. They knew by my actions what a bunch of lies they were - I never had to say a thing in my defense, and this was even though her Baptist friends hated my religion.
I really hope you get the professional help you evidently need to be happy and to move on with your life. May you have peace and mental health.
SERENITY NOW.... If your comment is how I write, it was intended for children like you ... how many languages do you speak or write?
If you re-read her comment it was not directed at you, but at "Max D", one of the other posters on this thread.
However, between your coming here to "expose" your wife and her lies, and your response to Serenity, even in a misunderstood situation, it seems you have a LOT of anger.
Do you realize that a lot of us are ex-JWs who have been treated like cr@p by the WT society in general and by individual JWs specifically? Telling us here about your ex is pretty much akin to gossiping at the local laundromat.
You've obviously attempted to show your ex up for her lies, but honestly, it doesn't look like it's going to affect her one little bit...her life will move on completely independent of yours. Like anyone else who's been burned by the JW community, you have a choice. You can either sit on it and let it fester, or you can suck it up, and decide that you're above all the pettiness and move on. How you choose to air your dirty laundry in public only reflects on you, not her.
My 2 cents.
First I would like to apologize to SERENITY NOW, I thought your comment was directed at me.
I would also like to thank all those who commented on this subject, it was an error on my part, anger can make one do stupid things, the wedsite is off, time to move on....
Thank you
