Jeanniebeanz: "They get put under tremendous pressure to conform to the wishes of the rest of the body in matters they do not agree with. After a while, the conscience cracks and they're out."
Such a true statement. I hate to sound condescending so I apologize if it comes out that way but those of you who were never elders or their wives to a degree have no idea how it is for them so please dont be too quick to judge. I again say that I am not agreeing with crappy treatment but for many of them, they behave like this out of loyalty to an organization not God or Christ.
Its all a sham people, elders are not...NOT appointed by holy spirit so we shouldnt expect it to be acting thru them. For those of you who still believe in god that is.