How do you feel about elders DF'g a child of 13 or 14 for being a willing v (page 3)

Daunt

This kinda stuff always gets me super depressed. They do not have the right to think they know everything, and hide obvious statitory rape. It's just not right..

avishai

This kinda stuff always gets me super depressed. They do not have the right to think they know everything, and hide obvious statitory rape. It's just not right..

Bingo, there's another BIG problem. Not just child molester cover ups. Using their Df'ing power to cover up Statuatory rape. And spiritually rape the kid all over again. Asshole Elders!!!!

lisaBObeesa

Yes, she was disfellowshipped recently for throwing herself continuously at a certain young brother until she made him fornicate with her.

She MADE him?? I don't think so.

144001

Doubtfully,

"She made him fornicate with her?"

Pull your head out of your ass. Women don't force men to "fornicate" with them. Unless it's forcible rape, it's the result of mutual assent.

Country Girl

Yes, she was disfellowshipped recently for throwing herself continuously at a certain young brother until she made him fornicate with her. Good thing that he was disfellowshipped also

Luna, you beat me too it.

See, this is the typical dub mentality. The girl "made" me do it. I've seen girls df'd at 13-14 while the 35 yr. old that slept with her was privately reproved. Sick.

Right on Luna and Avi... It's not just a typical Dub mentality--it's the typical mentality of a very large portion of the population: if she gets raped, well, she must have been wearing a provocative dress, showing too much leg, breast, etc. It's a very sickening way of thinking. No one deserves to be violated, as a child, by an adult based on ANYTHING the child does, says, or wears. A child should be presumed innocent until the age of legal majority in a sexual situation. End of story. CG

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Dragonlady76

I know of this girl that is 14 years old and nobody would ever know it by the way she looks and behaves.
She could easily pass for 18 or 19 years old. She uses so much make up, is tall and very developed in the femenine sense, and dresses oh so very slutty.
Yes, she was disfellowshipped recently for throwing herself continuously at a certain young brother until she made him fornicate with her. Good thing that he was disfellowshipped also.
The parents of both parties are much to blame for this situation. Just no supervising or good parenting whatsoever!

DY,

WTF!

First of all NO one MADE this MS FORNICATE with this girl, I don't give a rat's ass how womaly she may look on the outside, she's still just a kid on the inside. Your comments on her personal coif would lead me to believe your either jealous of her looks or you have a very warped sense of sexuality and relationships. Who cares who much makeup she wears! Parent's have a responsibility to teach their kids, but total control is not possible and blaming the parents in this case does not seem to fit.

Under no circumstances is it acceptable to df a child, it's an abohoration and should not happen, kids should not be baptized period.

Dragonlady76

I would like to add to my above stated comments.......GRRRRRRRRRRRRR!

DL76

Oxnard Hamster

The WTS needs to quit worrying about how and who to df and get with helping people.

Imagine that, a Christian organization that actually helps people, instead of worrying about fighting a war with a bunch of desert dwellers, or banning marriages that really have no effect on anyone.

Yeah, I'm a bit bitter toward Christianity in general right now. Sorry if anyone finds this offensive.

Glofishy

Few thoughts:

I was baptized a Catholic as a baby. I could go running through my nearest Catholic Church naked, screaming I am a lesbian that recently had an abortion, and that cult will STILL refuse to take me off their roles. I WISH I could take my name off but NO! We can't have that!

Disfellowshipping a victim of sexual abuse? No, that's absolutely wrong. A child cannot give consent. Any woman on these boards will tell you there has been a period in our lives, say 12-16, where the hormones are going and we do want to get attention from men. This is natural and in no way should be taken advantage of by an adult, no matter how "slutty" the dress.

Baptizing children? Well, I was baptized a Baptist at the age of 12. I knew what I was doing and I wholeheartedly believed in it. It was right for me at the time, and even now at the age of 39, I look back at that time very fondly. It's filled with good memories. I don't hold a lot of the same beliefs now, but I most certainly don't regret it.

Disfellowshipping a naughty child? I wouldn't go that far, but I do think that public reproving, such as for stealing, isn't such a bad idea. I like the "it takes a village to raise a child" thought. Hopefully, the village isn't filled with idiots.

JW Ben

As a JW I do not think any child should be baptised.

As far as a girl goes that throuws themselves at a male, weel in some cases the girls do know what they are doing. They do it willfully. Some girls are just plain inocent inthier outlooks on life.

I know of girls around that age that will willingly hug other people becose thatis their inocent way, they have had a close loving family upbringing. Then I have sen girls at that age that are craving for atteniton and un-nkowingly (perhaps beter said unintentionally aware) of the fact that by showing males extra attention can lead the male to want more.

Then I have seen girls that with full knowledge of what thet are doing try to seduce a male.

In any case at that sort of age the parents should have had serious conversations with they children about how their actions can effect the opposite sex. SO if a 12 or 13 y.o girl (or boy) allows someone else to take advantage of them, the parents should hold some responability. (notice i said allow, not forced into) And the lines of coomuniction between parent and child should be open enough for the child to tell the parenrs if someone had molestered them (unfortunately that comminication is often lacking)

Here in Australia it is not illigal for a 12 or 13 y.o to have sex with some one their own age. So a lot of children at that age are often sexually active and do know what they are doing.

I have volenteered at a couple of schools working with children form age 9 to 14 that need one on one help with some aspects of learning. (esprcially dyslexic children) and I have seen all those types of behaviour. At the school I presently volenteer at there is one teache that had to be spoken too because many of the 11- 13 y.o. girls were paying him a lot of attention.

No JW is supposed to be DF for an act. The only reason fro DF (though not always followed) is for attitude. toward the act as in willfully and continuously engaiging in or for not being repentet of what ever they were accused of.

Bodies of elders that do the wrong thing will be accountable for their actions

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