im still having trouble with this

by tsunami_rid3r 27 Replies latest jw friends

  • tsunami_rid3r
    tsunami_rid3r

    should i question her why is she leading me on?

  • ballistic
    ballistic

    Talesin said "It sounds to me", not a statement of fact.

    But the answer is.... no. Take my advice. If this girl is giving you such a headache, is she worth it?

  • Satanus
    Satanus

    The direct approach doesn't work on users, if you are the usee.

    S

  • tsunami_rid3r
    tsunami_rid3r

    i look at myself and im jealous, lustful, vengeful, wanting more. those are the feelings ive felt for a long time this year.

    so what should i do about the girl? what steps should i take right now?

    yall have told me to move on and ive tried with other girls and failed. like for example, a girl took my shirt, i gave it to her to wear for the week. i havent spoken to her for 2 weeks now because i have no way to contact her except through my friend which she isnt getting along with right now.

    so what should i do about the girl that yall say is playing me? exactly what should i do? i cant just say this relationship is over because it doesnt exist. what the hell do i do? straight out tell me please.

  • EvilForce
    EvilForce

    Lesson #1 - When a girl asks for your shirt to wear....say "Sure, but in exchange I'd like your phone number!"

  • La Capra
    La Capra

    Tsu- There is no hope with this girl. Of course, there is no easy way to get over this or past this. This girl gets off on twisting your shorts. She won't stop until she realizes she no longer has that pull. This girl is toxic (to you, at least). You should avoid any kind of consumption. Every time you think about her, force yourself to think of something else. Indulging yourself by thinking about her is like tasting the poison. Block her IMs, because engaging in conversations with her is like drinking the poison (just to see if it is still poisonous). Oh, and as you can see, people get tired of hearing about this stuff, another sign you need to move on. Just wait until you see all those adorably geeky girls when you start college. You'll forget this trollop so fast that you'll wonder what you were thinking. Don't lose another second on this one-she can't even be a friend to you. Shoshana

  • tsunami_rid3r
    tsunami_rid3r

    thank you.

  • Sith
    Sith

    I don't agree with La Capra. There is hope, but not as long as you act like a whipped puppy-dog around her. You have to be respected. I've told you before...friendship, respect, passion. Those are the building blocks of a sucessful relationship. Right now, she has no respect for you

  • tsunami_rid3r
    tsunami_rid3r

    omg so that was bad advice from La Carpa..

    Ok sith. so tell me what do i do exactly to get back respect?

    because right now shes blocked on instant messanger and the only way shes gonna talk to me if she calls me.

    and heres some hope for you, a girl just called me a min ago, like a good friend of mine who had a crush on me, seeing if i wanted to go to a party with her. but im tired and i feel shitty right now. so i declined. i suck.

  • EvilForce
    EvilForce

    Dude, call her back and go to the party....

    You won't meet any women by sitting at home. So go with her, have fun!!!! You are young for god's sake.

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