im still having trouble with this (page 3)

Sith

it's a paradox...nobody respects you if they know they can have you. Fawning over a girl (or guy, that's for you, Evil) has the opposite effect of what you're hoping for. The more you push, the more they draw away

tsunami_rid3r

no, i have a headache, i worked all last night yesterday then went to the movies and came back home at 3, then i had to get up at 7 for field service then get to work at 11, then got off at 5 and then i had to do something outside, and then i worked and im tired as hell.

sith im dumb, tell me EXACTLY what i should do? b/c from what you just said i should just leave her blocked and not really talk to her at school.

EvilForce

blah, blah, blah...you're 18!!! Suck it up.... go party dude!!!

I'm just teasing.... but seriously... go meet some new people. Take you mind of the "tease". Maybe you don't really like the girl that wants to go to the party... but you know what? I'm sure she has hot friends :)

Sith is also giving you good advice too....(God will strike me down for saying that). Trust me even though I'm gay people like the chase. You are too available for her. So once you finally move on and find someone else, that same girl will probably start calling you... It's stupid I know. But if she has you on "ignore" on AIM Chat you need to get a clue.

You are a hot guy. You will find someone who likes you for you. My husband/partner is Korean...so I know hot asian men when I see them :)

tsunami_rid3r

she doesnt have me on ignore. shes always IMing me...

talesin

Hey, tsu ,,, are you only hearing what you want to hear? *knocks*

The direct approach doesn't work on users, if you are the usee.

If she is a play-ah (oh, you can't message her, but she can message you, I see) , then she is a play-ah. Dude is right, direct approach don't work on users. Go out and have some fun.

Peace out, hope it goes well.

tal

ballistic

Lesson #1 - When a girl asks for your shirt to wear....say "Sure, but in exchange I'd like your phone number!"

Shouldn't that read, "when a girl asks you for your shirt... offer your under-garment also"

CoonDawg

"Guys don't have girls as 'Friends'....just girls that they haven't f***ed -- YET." -- Chris Rock

Dude, don't fall into the trap of settling to be someone's "friend" when you really are somewhat attracted to them in a more serious way. This isn't fair to either of you. Lay it out there, you may be surprised with the results...if she doesn't want more of a relationship, you can move on. If you don't have the nads to do it, you only trap yourself in misery.

JMO, of course

Ern

tsunami_rid3r

my problem is i cant be just friends to every attractive girl i come across. i just look at em different. like man id like to hit that. like today i felt that way towards my 3rd cousin or w/e you call it when shes the daughter of your dad's cousin..dammit we even exchanged numbers. what is wrong with me.

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