Meet Silentlambs In Person!

by silentlambs 94 Replies latest watchtower scandals

  • silentlambs
    silentlambs

    I am going to be at a trial in Ritzville, Washington. The town is about an hour southwest from Spokane, Wa. I will be there on August 14th, which will be on a Tuesday. Why? Read the story of Erica below. In the first trial only three sat on her side of the court room, while the other side was filled with jw's supporting the pedophile. It is alleged the man admitted he was guilty. This time I wish to fill Erica's side of the courtroom. It is my understanding wt has taken a personal interest in this case and is working with the child molesters defense attorney to get him off. If you want to make a statement about this issue, support a silentlamb, and make wt know this is just the beginning. I welcome you to come to Ritzville. I will be glad to meet you and I am sure the real hero of all this, Erica will also. You may email me for further information.

    silentlambs

    I would like to briefly summarize my experience as a victim of molestation as a child. The difference from other molested victims is that it happened to me as one of Jehovah's Witnesses(JW). Most of the rapes/molestations occurred by a Jehovah's Witness elder who incidentally also happened to be my father's good and trusted friend. The sexual assaults started at age four and continued until I was eleven. The perpetrator is presently a JW in "good standing" which means he is accepted by JW's and he can preach from door-to-door without hindrance.

    Not so long ago, I attempted to resolve this situation in accordance to JW policy, which meant approaching JW elders who would exercise justice and fairness as outlined in the Bible. Instead, these group of men did everything they could in order to cover-up and dismiss the serious crimes against me. It became apparent to me that these Watchtower representatives were only interested in protecting the organization and cared little about my individual circumstance. This came to a head when one elder told me, "never repeat what happened to you (the numerous molestations), or you will be disfellowshipped(excommunicated)."

    I am now relieved that I did not maintain silence and went to law enforcement officials so that these sex crimes would be made known and would cease. I finally at the age of 19 related these sex crimes a peace officer who also happened to be one of JWs. I had come to "my wits end," in that another JW elder had molested me from age twelve to sixteen. This is what prompted me to divulge to proper authorities what was occurring to me in the present and what had happened to me in my childhood. Little did I realize how calculated the organization would be in encapsulating and deflecting the responsibility in this matter. In one judicial meeting, I was appalled because my parents were verbally attacked and later ostracized for not going along with the "code of silence" adhered to among JWs.
    Meanwhile, the child molester, for months continued to evangelize, preach from the platform at the Kingdom Hall, and enjoy "special privileges" as an ordained JW minister. Finally, in 1998 he was forced to appear before a jury in a superior court to answer for his crimes. That jury unanimously convicted him on two counts of child rape and two counts of child molestation. This trial could have been avoided if he had truthfully confessed to his crimes against me and accepted the plea bargain offered to him by the state. However, the pedophile hired a private attorney and lost; he was convicted and later sentenced to eleven and a half years to State Prison. Interestingly, by the time he was sentenced he was reinstated as a JW member in good standing so that he could escort his daughter at her wedding in a Kingdom Hall of JW (a privilege reserved for approved JW's). At the trial, the pedophile’s side of the courtroom was filled with JW's who were in support of him. On my side, only three sat. During this time period, two other JW victims came forward, but it would be ineffectual as far as the trial was concerned because of the statutes of limitations pertaining to them. At the sentencing three elders stood up to plead for mercy in his behalf along with nine other fellow witnesses. The judge just shook his head in disgust. When the judge sentenced him to eleven and a half years, a pioneer sister yelled slut and whore at me across the courtroom. I have to wonder what part of the “spiritual paradise” I was experiencing at this point.

    Sadly this is not the end of it, recently, the pedophile was prematurely released from state prison due to a technicality; a technicality favors a new trial. This is not because there was insufficient evidence, but that jury selection was tampered with. (My case is not the only one up for retrial, but many others in that time frame.) This means I now have to go back through my entire testimony all over again. To go through this ordeal again is extremely traumatic for me. But if this prevents him from continuing his pattern of sexual abuse, it is all worth it. If any of this that I have related seems embellished, please access court transcripts that will verify my account in xxxx County Superior Court in xxxxxxx. My hope is that another JW involved in a similar situation will find my experience helpful and a stepping stone to do whatever is in their power for true justice.

  • Patriot
    Patriot

    That experience is completly sad in itself. It still boggles me the lengths that this Org. would go to cover all this up just to keep claiming that they are the "true" religion. How truely sad.

    Brother Bowen I really wish that I can meet with you. I have been keeping in close contact with Exodus(Truthexodus) which is the P.O. that you have helping with his merky situation here in NYC. I must say to you here so that all that does'nt know may know, that you are indeed an incredible man. You have done so much and are so busy but yet you have time to keep helping others who need that extra help just when it really counts.

    I told exodus that I wish I had any documentation that could be used in helping you but unfortunately I don't.
    All I have are the bitter memories of how I was ousted from the borg after 5 interrogation sessions by the C.O.and P.O. then the mock judicial commitee with about 13 witnesses that came to "testify" against me.

    It was all for the better anyway. No more doing their "dirty" work for them.
    Now my wife and I can concentrate on raising our daughter without putting ideas of eternal destruction in her head.

    Again, thanks to you for all your hard work, to you I take my hat off.
    Take care and maybe one day we'll meet.

    Maverick-

    All men must die.......but few,ever really live..

  • cnn77
    cnn77

    Bill,

    2 things for you:

    1. Since this bastard was already convicted it is now officially a matter of public record. Therefore you are legally allowed to release his name. That way we can all write to the society and ask them why they are covering for person XX and we can attach official information to those letters. Let's give these people there own medicine!!

    2. If you contact me at [email protected] I would like to send you a check to pay for your airfare to Washington. Otherwise let me know on here how much it is and I will just mail it.

    Sincerely,
    CNN77

  • Stephanus
    Stephanus

    Damn! If it'd been a few days later, there is a remote possibility I could come and lend my support. It'd look good too, if we could get a local media tv camera on me saying: "This particular case is so important that I flew here from Australia to observe it and lend my support to the victim of this cult's heartless leadership. I see the JW Rent-a-Crowd is here supporting the perpetrator of this heinous crime - I hope they feel proud!"

    Oh well, best wishes, Bill.

    I hope to get over to the States one day to catch up with some of the posters here...

  • zev
    zev

    appalling!

    It is my understanding wt has taken a personal interest in this case and is working with the child molesters defense attorney to get him off.

    and just what do they hope to accomplish? keeping the kult klean? {i mean the borg clean} what the hell is wrong with them? defending a know, proven pedophile? for what, what do they hope to accomplish with this? the victim is the victim, why are they not defending the victim? the purp should be thrown into the big boys cell and let the inmates serve up jailhouse justice! let big old bubba play house with this pedophile, and teach him a thing or two about hurting kids.

    this is unbelievable.

    zev = is now a full time member, of the HURLING CLASS


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    Zev
    The greatest consistancy of the WTBTS is their INconsistancy.

  • Farkel
    Farkel

    SilentLambs,

    I add my voice of support to the other posters. I do have one question about this statement, though:

    :finally at the age of 19 related these sex crimes a peace officer who also happened to be one of JWs.

    Since when can a JW be a peace officer? I've been out a long time, but I was always under the impression that JWs could never serve in any job that required them to carry a gun. Of course we all know that the scriptures plainly forbid any job that involves carrying a gun!

    What kind of peace officer was she talking about, and has the society become lax on this former clear-cut restriction on dub employment?

    Hell they tell you what to read, what to watch, what to say, what to think, what to wear, what music to listen to, who to marry, how to marry, when to marry, how to divorce and how to have sex so they might as well tell you what kind of jobs you can have. It wouldn't matter to a dub. They've been beaten down so far, what's another restriction on their non-lives, anyway?

    Some day you and I will meet, Bill. I'm certain of it. Tell Erica my heart and best wishes are with her, ok?

    Farkel

  • SixofNine
    SixofNine

    Hey Farkel,

    Don't quote me on this, or at least don't tell anyone who you are quoting , but I think the "deal" from the org. in regards to being in law enforcement is {surprise} a politically shaded policy. Because of the public image ramifications, I think the limit of congregational action against a gun-toting peace officer will be to withold any "privileges" of service.

    Essentially, a person who chooses to serve his fellow man in this capacity is treated much like a pedophile or a filthy unshaven man.

  • Had Enough
    Had Enough

    Hello silentlambs:

    Just what is the matter with these people? I know if I was still active in the borg and hearing the many cases of abuse like this one, I could NOT stand there and give my support to one proven guilty of such a horrific crime.

    At the sentencing three elders stood up to plead for mercy in his behalf along with nine other fellow witnesses.

    What are they thinking? Do they think he was wrongly accused and innocent? The judge didn't...he shook his head is disbelief.

    Is he claiming repentance and so the JWs feel they must forgive him and support him? There are many others who were repentant of sins much less serious than molesting, and were still df'd anyways. How does he rate such support?

    What if he robbed a bank, committed fraud, killed someone....if he was repentant, does that mean he shouldn't have to go to jail to serve his time? Why should the elders think this crime should go unpunished?

    There is something seriously wrong with this picture. These elders and the loving pioneer sister yelling out "slut" and "whore" to the victim, have really lost all sensibility and reasoning.

    I'm now beginning to join zev in his "hurling class".

    Had Enough

  • Roamingfeline
    Roamingfeline

    I would be more than happy to show up there, except my plane doesn't leave Australia for the USA until Aug 15. And then I will be in Missouri, a long way from Washington. But I hope that some will be able to be there to support this poor girl.

    RCat

  • Farkel
    Farkel

    "Totally braindead" - see below.

    : There is something seriously wrong with this picture. These elders and the loving pioneer sister yelling out "slut" and "whore" to the victim, have really lost all sensibility and reasoning.

    "Totally braindead" - see above.

    And some folks think I (and others) are going overboard when we use that expression? I think we're being way too kind.

    Farkel

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