You're right- I forget that not many have the guts for that kind of battle. It amazes me how scared people are of those elders- even non-witnesses. I guess that's why their wives end up dubs.
I was bothered by elders trying to shepherd my wife and kids after I publicly renounced my membership. One day Mr P.O. and service overseer came to visit while I was home. I was ready for them and slipped a real juicy Hustler mag I had borrowed from work under the back of the P.O. drivers seat while they were inside talking to my wife. I hope it slid out during one of his wednesday service days. Anyway, they stopped coming by.
Moshe