This was a topic that annoyed me and I got into a bit of an argument years ago over this.
Some sister (who never worked a day in her life I might add) with the cushy life, affluent husband thought that because she pioneered it was equal to me having a full time secular job. There were others there who naively thought the same thing. Somehow I gave them an inferiority complex because I worked so they had to dream this up to make themselves feel better.
While I agree that someone who pioneers may be physically tired at the end of the day, there is no comparison to what I have to deal with in going to and from and being on a full time job. I won't even get into the crazy, rude people you meet on public transit or driving with dangerous people on the road plus the back-stabbing behavior you are faced with on a secular job.