Taking on others personalities

by kls 25 Replies latest jw experiences

  • talesin
    talesin

    Yes, it happens. .. thinking it's an indication of insecurity in who you are, and not really knowing yourself .. then taking on the expressions or mannerisms of someone you like and admire .. going with the flow is one thing, changing your behaviours and outlook on life is quite another.

    When I was young, and newly out of the b'Org, I tried to 'fit in' with my crowd, but it never felt right. People picked up on the fact that I was a phoney, and I had few friends that lasted. Though I was always trying to be good and nice, I had no idea who I really was, and folks sensed that.

    Now that I'm 'my own person'; sometimes cranky, and yes, opinionated, I have a lot more friends, and they stick around, because that is the real me.

    It still happens occasionally, and I find myself gettin askeered when I catch myself doing it

    Seriously, though, it seems normal that we would pick up little expressions, etc., when we are hanging out with someone, but changing your personality and ways of dealing with people is a sign of emotional immaturity and emptiness inside.

    The other side of this, is that maybe that person has caused the other to do some thinking about life and how they feel ... maybe they have taken on a different viewpoint because the friendship has stimulated them towards inner reflection. Depends on the situation.

    t

  • talesin
    talesin

    lol @ odrade .... we must have been communicating through the airwaves ... same thoughts, only I had to ramble on and on as usual, and you were much more concise ...

  • kls
    kls
    It still happens occasionally, and I find myself gettin askeered when I catch myself doing it

    Tales ,you gona start swinging from trees to and saving that special ,ummm something for flinging

  • crazyblondeb
    crazyblondeb

    Brooke,

    You are being the bigger person just by going to the wedding. I'm sorry you are getting hurt. I don't think I could keep my mouth shut!!! But then, my mouth does tend to overrun my ass. (and it's a big ass!)

    shelley

  • kls
    kls
    my mouth does tend to overrun my ass. (and it's a big ass!)

    Yes !! another hit !! I think i wove you

  • Sith
    Sith

    Don't they call that "monkey see...monkey do"?

  • kls
    kls
    Don't they call that "monkey see...monkey do"?

    Umm ,ya but that was madeup by humans and it is not true just like the dumb Blonde thing ain't true

  • Sith
    Sith

    KLS, it always comes down to a hair thing with you

  • kls
    kls
    KLS, it always comes down to a hair thing with you

    It's fur not hair you Sith you and for some reason i am growing a fear of razorsBuzzzzzoh the humility

  • talesin
    talesin

    No swinging from branches, cause I have an invisible plane,,,, DOH! but hmm, that lasso might come in handy for flinging stuff

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