When partners lie

by Es 21 Replies latest jw friends

  • LouBelle
    LouBelle

    I hate lying Es - it's something that really really upsets me.

    Perhaps look at it in context - was it hurtful/malicious. Is it a pattern? It's a difficult one. I mean you could be upset about it - but if it's trully not such a huge thing, should you get upset, but then small lies lead to bigger lies.

    Personally I don't think I'd make an issue out of it if it was like - Does your wife feed you & he says no, when you do, 'cos he wants to score some free chow at home.....if it's something bigger - you need to talk it over.

    Communication is key!

  • Es
    Es

    Thanks Lou Belle great advice...what really worries me is that now i kinda listen to everything he says and i doubt it. The lie was only a tiny one and i think im over the fat he did it, just still makes it hard not to quest everything that comes out of his mouth.

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