Well, I don't believe it's "all in the mind" at all!
I was in about fourth grade when I used a Ouija board with some neighborhood friends. We were prepubescent, but interested in horses and horsebackriding as much as boys and the Beatles (<-- showing my age!).
Anyway, as in Mulan's case, the Ouija board told me the name of my future husband and also where we would live. At the time, I had a romantic idea that I would one day move to Denver, where I would have a ranch and lots of horses, especially Paints. Unfortunately, try as I might to influence the name of the city where I would live while married to "D-E-N-V-E-R", the board insisted on "D-E-T-R-O-I-T." I had NO idea why and was sorely disappointed. Didn't fit my plans!
Also, the board stopped at the letter "B" for the name of my future husband. Wouldn't budge. Years later, when I was 19 and had just returned from school in Europe, a psychic who was "rented" for a party I'd been invited to, told me that there was a man whose name began with a "B" who was important in my life. At the time, I thought, well, sure: My father and my brother were both "Bob" and I even had dated two Bobs before I went away to school. But she claimed it was not the Bobs or Roberts, definitely just a "B". I met my future husband a month or so later.
My husband of 26 years was named "Baltasar" but was known professionally, socially, and even in his nuclear family as "B," since Baltasar is a strange name in North America. He's an auto executive and we moved to Detroit a year after we'd married and have lived in the Detroit area for 20 of the past 27 years.
So, to me, it works and its power is uncanny. I wish I'd known of Randi's proposition and recorded that info when I was 10!
outnfree