((( El J )))
I believe Jesus taught us to pray in the manner of the Lord's Prayer, to not ask for specifics just to be disappointed, but to ask for "Thy will be done".
I've seen this type of prayer - allowing "god" to do "it's" job, and the outcome beyond anything the person would have asked for:
A friend and co-worker wanted to go to her parents 50th wedding aniversary. However, her father sexually molested her, her sister and her son when they were young. She wanted to go for her mom, but didn't care about her dad. It was a month away, and across the country.
So I suggested 1) she act as if she were going and research airfare and 2) every night she pray "God bless my dad" and leave it at that. She did, and she ended up going to the event.
At the party, before it started, she noticed her dad's makeup was askew (he was undergoing chemo and a year later died of cancer) So she took her dad into the bathroom to fix his makeup. The moment they entered the room, he began to cry and beg her forgiveness for the things he did to her! She was able to tell him that she had ALREADY forgiven him.
Hug Sobrino!
Tia Brenda