More information on the December 1 article. Non-witnesses are referred to as "pests". Here's some advice I posted on another thread.
1. Before the article comes out, have a general conversation about human rights abuses in the world, bigotry, etc. Establish a general concept of what bigotry is. Don't associate the JW's just yet.
2. Talk heart-to-heart with your beloved on how their involvement with the JW's affects your life. Be as sincere and human as you can be. Talk about the time away, your devotion to them as a person and the features you find most attractive in them. Finally, hit them with how the bigoted talk affects you personally. You can ask questions like, "If you are looking forward to Armageddon, does that you also look forward to me dying?" or "When elder XX talked about people in the world being so wicked, was he talking about people like me? Do you think I am wicked?" or "You just came home with another problem at the hall. Explain again how those of us in the "world" are so much worse?" Repeat that those phrases and comments hurt you personally.