by LostSouls 40 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
Did you see post 2 on this thread?
For your next question ... don't do it.
No, I didn't edit it and add it. I just knew.
Then, take a peak at the next thing I posted:
Something else you might want to know, is you're dealing with someone in a cult
You really want to join a cult? Why don't you try to bring her out of it. It would be a lot more valient, and I'm sure she'd put out a lot more too. (just kidding. you're not really looking for that anyway, are you?)
Kwin
I understand you lostsouls, if I was in love and it was mutual, I'd do everything in my power to be with the one I love...
lets say the one in a billion chance of me bringing her out of it works.......wouldn't her parent or something renounce her or stuff like that?
and how in the world would i convince her to come out, i already said what i could've
lets say the one in a billion chance of me bringing her out of it works.......wouldn't her parent or something renounce her or stuff like that?and how in the world would i convince her to come out, i already said what i could've
There, that's a much better question then, "Where do I sign up?"
The best way, is to educate yourself on what they teach, and WHY it is a bunch of BS. Once you do that, play possem and ask tough questions about the stuff that they're teaching. Ask lots, and lots, and lots of questions. Expect them to back EVERYTHING up, and don't take, "Let's talk about that later." for an answer as "later" will never come.
Yes, if she leaves the church, chances are her parents won't speak to her anymore. It is a cult after all.
Kwin
i guess love isn't the strongest force in the world then...........
well then, all i can say is....
i can't wait till those guys come my door step there gonna get a ear full
The JW's manipulate people any way they can. She is under their control even if she would want to be with you.
Well, what I can say is that if you really, really love her do whatever you have to do. But know this, it's going to be an uphill battle for you, all the way and there's no guarantee how it's going to turn out in the end either. You could spend years converting (yes it takes years to indoctrinate you) and in the end she goes for someone else, or you could spend years attempting to un-indoctrinate her, and she may never leave. There is no easy road for you.
Love is a strong force, but the JW's fear of doing something wrong is much stronger. All they know is fear. That's how they're kept under control.
Kwin
What you are experiencing is hormonal longing based on little else than secretions in your brain. The idea that you saw some girl and went mad about her doesn't say much about your rationality. Instead of hunting down anti-JW's for Dear Abby advice, you would be better off dealing directly with your own value system. It is in need of recalibration!
Are you thinking about what is best for you, or, her? It would be highly destructive to this girl's family security and her own valuation of her personal relationship with the Supreme Being in the universe to fall into your clutches. Why would you wish that on somebody you claim you have feelings for?
Ever hear the song: "You can't always get what you want..."?
Sometimes with certain people it is the challenge of being forbidden access that drives their hormonal ambitions. Mature a little first, develop a philosophy of life that transcends your physical urgings and fantasy longings and construct a purpose in life.
Don't go to strangers and ask for advice. We don't know you. We don't know her. We only know we have been badly misused by the same religious organization that this object of your affections is affilliated with.
Read a book, exercise and build a life for yourself that excludes young girls in a mind-control group. You'll be glad you did.
T.
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