Awww, honey you really have it bad for this girl. Please though, don't convert to being a JW over love. It's not worth it. And you know, believe it or not, feelings like you are having will come again. You'll see. You've gotta a lot of livin' to do.
I am not JW but i have a q uestion for you guys and gals
by LostSouls 40 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
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Evanescence
LostSoul...I met someone in a similar situation as you....
if you are young....at first they didn't like the idea but then they realised its the wisest desition to make......
For now just be friends until you are older.....if you love this girl then study hard on the jw's and pray for guidance from our father
Evanescence
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in a new york bethel minute
Terry, tonight you were working on "Material adapted to suit audience".
We're going to give you a W on this...
hahahahahahahahaahaha
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inquirer
This is a warning... EVERY FRIENDSHIP OR RELATIONSHIP WITH A JW IS CONDITIONAL!
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inquirer
Go Terry! Ditto! You are really helping this bloke! Please don't let him fall for any hormonal traps!
Why can't she accept the way YOU are? Why is it us blokes always have to please women but never the other way round? that's the way it seems sometimes anyway.
Lostsouls,...I like chicks too, but not JW ones! You have to start thinking they are intangible! -
inquirer
Yeah, that's being brutally honest. Good on you jgnat! :)
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Man kwin
I was beginning to warm up to you, but after your comments on this thread I think differently of you. I know, you really dont care, but I wanted to let you know anyway!
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trevor
Lostsouls
I think you are having a laugh. In response to sensible advice you state:
i don't give a flying rats ass what you think alright
this is the last time I’m viewing this website
Once you have moved beyond tantrum and have control of your emotions you will be able to understand the needs of a woman. Until then you will be hopelessly out of your depth. If I were you I would stick to looking at cartoons and leave this lovely girl alone.
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heretic
I skimmed this thread and it seems some people are acting like jerks,
Im not surprised he walked after Terrys comments, the blokes in a difficault situation and wants some advice on a subject thats completely new to him and hes made to look like an idiot, we were all young once and in love once, he should stick with it. Research for when he gets bible bashed by the fam, stay cool and leave the ball in her court. Tell her your prepared to wait til you get married and stick around, maybe shell come around.
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Rayvin
I can only hope that -lostsouls- continues to read....
Since you truly want to be with this girl .. here is my simple ideas.
Don't try to 'date' her since she is so 'IN' the religion. Try and become a very good,nice "acquaintance". The only asscociation that is barely okay outside the WTS. Just talk to her and let her talk to you. Get her comfortable with you enough to share her thoughts and fears. No matter what you should become good friends from this and because you are there for her she wont be able to completely deny your friendship. Study about the WTS extensivly(on your own)Find small little details that are lies within the WTS. Eventually you can bring it up casually with her. Ask her out of "curiosity" and get her to research the answers on her own 'for you'. Don't push it. Later on you can ask her about another 'issue' you have. Have her research that as well. Eventually she will start to see a trend of questions with no answers from the WTS that make any sense and her doubt will be seeded. .........
Since this in itself may take a long while I can't feel the need to post anymore about it untill this has or hasn't come to happen.
JMO-- Hope things go well for you no matter the outcome.