I sat on the fence and pretended for a couple of years, all while slowly cutting back on my assignments and "privileges"
This was to try and effect some change amongst those I thought were friends.
Most importantly though it was to be there for my wife as she slowly awoke. If I had simply left, or acted too harshly about the society while she was awakening, it may have made her harden her love for the org, or dig in her heals.
But by being calm, and displaying love and patience, she too awoke.
She awoke, and joins us here on the forum. That was the best day of my life!
So whatever anyone needs to do to suit their circumstances, I support that.