Posts by stuckinarut2

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My mom contacted me last night...

by HereIgo in

as i have revealed in other threads my mother and i havent talked in over 2 years.

she has been keeping her distance, therefore staying loyal to jehovah.

she found me on facebook.

stuckinarut2

How about:

"Mum, I did indeed put these matters to Jehovah, and he clearly guided me to follow the examples of ones in the bible book of Revelation who were told to "get out from amongst her, and quit touching the unclean things, so we don't share in the sins of an organization"

Too strong??

Or

"Mum, thanks for your sudden interest in my life. As you know, I take very seriously the Bible's command to "test the inspired expression" and to imitate the Boreans who "carefully examined the things taught" so as to please God. I put all these concerns to Jehovah and he has clearly shown me to step back from the organization while a cleansing takes place. I know that you would never want me to go contrary to his leadings, so I appreciate you respecting this process. As always, I love you. Your son"

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Why I DON'T Fear The Future - A Conversation With My JW Mum

by Divergent in

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3 questions i hit my jw mum with:.

first question: do you believe that god is love?

third question: do you think a god of love would choose to destroy me for not doing something i cannot do (be a jw) because i am not convinced rather than convince me beyond doubt?

stuckinarut2

Great comments!

I have done a similar thing when in conversation with witnesses.

By saying a line like "I prayed for Jehovah's direction, and it was clear that he wanted me to wait and see how the Australian Royal Commission was handled by the society," it shuts down their ability to argue it!

Because if they do argue it, they are trampling on the "guidance" I felt from God...

It traps them in their thinking....

You can apply that reasoning and line to any topic you like....

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The true sign of a Cult-Like group is:

by stuckinarut2 in

just thought we could have a concise thread listing the signs of a high control, or cult-like group:.

feel free to add to the list:.

the true sign of a cult-like group is:.

stuckinarut2

How about :

If your conscience dictates certain decisions and those decisions just happened to coincide with exactly what the governing body says at a particular time ....

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Witnesses illusion that they have their OWN conscience!! What a joke! Examples.

by Witness 007 in

witnesses always claim to have a "bible trained conscience" yet they are really just watchtower robots who cant piss without checking with an elder or watchtower.

an elder who cuts hair was scared when i asked for a bald buzz cut since my hair was receding and grey.

he actually rang a bethel elder to see if this was okay watchtower wise!

stuckinarut2

So that is why we have a situation where a witness says it "goes against their conscience to have a pinata." Then the following year they say it no longer bothers their conscience to have a pinata

It's funny how their conscience just happens to coincide with the current ruling from the governing body

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The true sign of a Cult-Like group is:

by stuckinarut2 in

just thought we could have a concise thread listing the signs of a high control, or cult-like group:.

feel free to add to the list:.

the true sign of a cult-like group is:.

stuckinarut2

Just thought we could have a concise thread listing the signs of a High Control, or Cult-like group:

Feel free to add to the list:

The true sign of a cult-like group is:

How it treats or speaks of those who want to leave

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November Broadcast - truly evil

by iwasblind in

hi there i don't watch much of the propaganda on jw.org anymore but i did catch the november broadcast.. i think these guys are either evil or controlled by someone who is incredibly skilled at mind control.. firstly, they establish their authority by saying "everything" else is a lie - you can't trust media or anyone.

"there is no inspiration today.." but they somehow have the direct connection with god - yuck.. then, they proceed with that disgusting "shunning" drama - but now it is not called shunning, (around 24 mins) the mother said... "if we were to stand between levi and the discipline he needs we would in affect be blocking an expression of jehovah's love from reaching him...".

i am so angry at this, what a load.

stuckinarut2

It is classic cult manipulation.

They make out that "It is YOUR fault that this is happening"

It is NO DIFFERENT to an abusive husband saying to his cowering wife "NOW Look what you made happen! I had to hit you because you made me do it!. Now you have hurt me by making me have to hit you"

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Witnesses illusion that they have their OWN conscience!! What a joke! Examples.

by Witness 007 in

witnesses always claim to have a "bible trained conscience" yet they are really just watchtower robots who cant piss without checking with an elder or watchtower.

an elder who cuts hair was scared when i asked for a bald buzz cut since my hair was receding and grey.

he actually rang a bethel elder to see if this was okay watchtower wise!

stuckinarut2

Yes indeed!

Witnesses do not have individual consciences, but rather a "collective conscience" from the GB.

That is why the term "The Borg" is so appropriate

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HQ move; a good thing?

by Half banana in

so the new jw hq is to be in warwick and no longer that bleak architectural fixture on the brooklyn skyline.

actually it makes more sense after all, upstate new york is a more suitable place to have a unicorn ranch than in a city.

but it is just as easy to produce a drizzle of fairy dust out in the country as it had been in ny.

stuckinarut2

Oh oh!! Data Dog, let me finish that sentence??

Meanwhile in Australia, they are looking to sell off the bethel realestate in order to settle the wave of law suits coming their way as a result of the Australian Royal Commission findings!

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The uptake...

by Thisismein1972 in

with recent events pointing at watchtower growth, i felt compelled to say a few words.. if the figures turn out to be true, then we should not be discouraged.

after 9/11 there was a surge in, not only the watchtower, but other demonisation of organised religion.

whenever there is a a paradigm shifting event that puts fear into others, this tends to have a life changing affect on an individual.. now let us zoom to the present.

stuckinarut2

The only growth comes from under-developed and uneducated countries ....

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The cleaning bug

by Steel in

i have a wife that literally cleans the house 24 7. it's hard on our marriage, our son has no natural affection for her.

if we go to an assembly she literally spends two days waxing and polishing the car.

she hand washes all the clothes before go into the washing machine because no machine could ever do as good a job as her.

stuckinarut2

Sadly, many who act like that are riddled with guilt. It may not even be proper guilt over anything wrong, but a FEELING of guilt.

Often members of high control groups never feel good enough, or feel like they are not up to standard, and such obsessive cleaning is evidence of that guilt feeling. Its like they try to "clean and scrub the guilt away"

She needs to be reassured that she has NOTHING to be guilty of.