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  Would you ever go back to an organized religion after leaving the Witnesses

  by MicStroz in

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  i was wondering just what the percentage would be on those who .

  have left and at some point turn to another group or church.. i know from my own trials that i will never be a part of any.

  organization.

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  codeblue

  Religion is a "snare and a racket".
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  Hi Im new here!

  by New Castles in

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  im new to the website and farely new to the idea of leaving the jw's.

  for a long time i've had doubts, questions that dont have an answer.

  i was an ms and reg pioneer for about 5 years.

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  codeblue

  Welcome!!!

  I understand how you feel....a lot of people here have been thru a similiar experience. If you get the chance to meet some of the posters, please do!!! Me and Mr. CB have recently started doing that and have had a lot of fun and better yet: they are people that show "undconditional love"...

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  BUMMED>>>> but it's ok..

  by Sassy in

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  i was so excited because i was to have a job interview near where i moved today!!

  i thought awesome.. i am sooooo tired of my long commute ............and if i get this job i am going to stop hiding who i am (because my working with a jw will be out of the picture).. and timing was so good because i had already taken part of today off... so i would be able to get the interview in w/o taking a vacation day!!

  woo hoo.. on a roll.. .

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  codeblue

  (((Sassy)))

  Sorry to hear about it....but hopefully when you do have your interview they will see what a wonderful person you are and give you the job!!!

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  Welcome OlSoddy

  by Valis in

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  welcome to the forum olsoddy!

  hope you enjoy the forum!.

  sincerely,.

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  codeblue

  Yes, welcome to the forum!!!

  There are a lot of nice people here, that are very supportive and good about giving "unconditional love".

  Hugs,

  Codeblue
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  My Story... please don't freak out on me...

  by Big Shooter in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  my story .

  well, i am new here, and i have a very long story.

  i don?t even know where to begin.

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  codeblue

  Welcome to the board Big Shooter!!!

  Wow, your life story really pulled at my heart. You have went thru so much pain. The lack of love was so abundant in your life. You have come to the right place to receive the unconditional love that you so deserve.

  Congratulations on your marriage and your child!!!

  Hugs,

  Codeblue
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  How Do I Help?

  by desib77 in

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  i have a friend who had her mother pass away this week.

  the horrible thing is that her father passed away a couple weeks prior to her mother and her aunt also passed away last month.

  i feel horrible for her.

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  You have gotten a lot of great advice from many already. You are so sweet to be so kind to her. She really needs the support!

  A few months ago, our neighbors lost their 12 year old dog, a mother, and their new house flooded.

  We felt so bad for them....so besides telling them how bad we felt, we went to Costco and bought them a gift basket. Placed it on their porch with a card as well. They found it when they got home. (very suprised!)

  Later they mailed us a card that said: "Thank you so much for the wonderful basket of goodies. And thanks, for advice on the water problem. We're lucky to have neighbors like you!"

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  Your Tomb Stone... what do you want written on it?

  by Elsewhere in

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  i think i would like this on mine:.

  you had your chance, but now he's gone.. please keep the line moving..

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  I don't want a Tomb Stone. I want people to remember me "alive"....not at a grave.
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  Whats been your greatest personal Struggle?

  by ScoobySnax in

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  whats been yours?

  be honest.. i know mines always been trying to reconcile being gay and being jw.

  as i was growing up it was like being in the middle of 2 polar opposites both tugging at me day in day out, sometimes trying to understand one whilst ignoring the other and vice versa.

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  codeblue

  Learning "how to pick up the pieces of my life" after the knowledge that for 37 years I was in a cult.

  I keep asking myself: What do I want to do with my life now?
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  Scully made 5,000!!!!!!!!!!

  by ozziepost in

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  congratulations on 5,000 well-spent posts!

  from ozzie and mrs ozzie okay, okay, i can read, i know it's 4,999, but that's 5,000 with 'rounding' ain't it?

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  codeblue

  Congratulations Scully!!!

  If it wasn't for you I wouldn't have any posts!!!

  Hopefully, me and Mr. CB and you will have a party together!!!

  Codeblue
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  I am marrying a df JW-

  by wtphobic in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i will be marrying a df jw in just 2 months.

  it is now really bothering him that his parents won't come to the wedding.

  omg- not only is he df, but it's being held in a church!!!

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  codeblue

  Welcome!!!

  Congrats on the upcoming wedding!!

  You have been given a lot of good advice how to help your finacee, especially since you have never been a JW. Sounds like you are very supportive of him, that is wonderful! I am glad you have shown him "unconditional love"...that is very important to us who have been in a religion that wasn't full of the love we expected.

  Take good care of each other!!! Hope you have a wonderful wedding!!!

  Codeblue