Welcome to the board!!!
What you just posted was very interesting to me. My first JW husband did the same thing to me...we were married 20 years and one time he had an affair with my best friend in the truth(tm)...He would be ok for a while and then "cheat" again.
The analogy of the WTBS lying to you was pretty good!
I was raised as a JW and lived it for 35 years (rather young when I started). So when I found this board, about a year ago and started reading COC....the level of anger rose for being "lied" too. When you find the real truth about the truth(tm) it spins a lot of emotions.
I think that when I dedicated myself it was to Jehovah and not to an organization...so I haven't had some of the anger that others have. After all, you can't blame God for imperfect men that are running a religion...(I blame the men!!!) As in the past, God will have a reckoning with those "shepherds" that didn't have pure motives in caring for the flock.
I can truly say that "time" does help and research also. If you live close enough to any poster from this board, I strongly recommend getting together. That also helps in the "healing" process.
Take care,
CodeBlue