stto13,
Am sorry for your plight. Here's how I see it. I'm a worldly guy and came into the fold briefly. She may, at the moment genuinely feel, she loves you and would "wait" for you. If this was not the borg. I would say say she's giving you the raspberry. But...how long before the elders brainwash her completely into forgetting you? She has already been brainwashed into going back -turning her back on her one love. If she is in the pinup class it won't be long until some elder encourages her to accept another arrow from cupid. It is my understanding that you guys did not discuss the borg being a false prophet. If she has been praying for reinstatement and it has happened...good luck with trying to convince her otherwise. Her prayers have been answered.
I want to digress a bit to make a point. A gentleman in a congregation, was without a job for the last 3 years as he got laid off during this eco. downturn. He prayed for three years and "waited on J" and now bingo! four weeks ago, he got a govt. job with excellent benefits. Do you think this guy will ever turn his back on the org. Not even if you hit him with the most convincing truth about the borgs doings.
Here's my five cents. You have two choices. You could get reinstated too- once in - try and make her see the real truth about this org. and hopefully both of you will be out. The Q is How long is that going to take? Another Q ? will she ever be convinced?
Its a gamble one way or another.
If it were me I would take BU2B's option.