I moved to a Spanish congregation even though did not speak the language...everyone thought i moved to learn the language and to help out.
You become a visitor in the congregation, few will speak to you,elders will leave you alone, eventually i started missing meeting and elders did not care since you were never involved in the cong. or went out in service. Elders in English congrration lost track or did not care.
Two months later i stopped all together, it was a beautiful fade.
Eventually the family will find out about you and you will get the pressure. Don't know the way out when you have family in the organization.