There was a post somewhere where an elder said "We want a broken person."
This "religion" thrives on guilt and fear. No one is accepted unless they feel worthless.
If you have skill, talent, education, ability - you need to be knocked down.
As a parent, it is the exact opposite of how I want my children to feel.
For those who feel God is our parent, He does not want his children to feel like they're shit.