Touche' oneeyedjoe! touche'....
I am also glad to see that my wife is not the only wife that is asleep or affraid to have there own opionion in this whole mess.
funny thing happened an jui jitsu class "lol" yep i still do martial arts...never stopped and never will. the instructor was talking about getting in
a bad hold... and he made a comparison to have a bad relationship with a girl.
he said you have two options:
1. Tapout if you see no way out!
2. if you see a way to get out of the hold that you got yourself stuck in and need to get better position. your going to have to work your ass off, it's going to hurt like hell. but in the end your position may put you in place where you could win the match.
jui jitsu is just like chess and us who are in relationships with JW significant others is the same. play a chess game and always think before you move to get position.
as in jui jitsu we say position before submission...this applies to our situation.
God Bless all and stay close to Jesus!
GTTM