Captain Obvious Thanks for the advice
Phizzy: you are correct about winning the war and loosing the battle.
When i break down the facts about where we are in this mess.....they are has follows:
1. i have not mentioned anything to her about this being a cult..i am hesitent on this.
2. i have no family on my side that are witnesses...and 99.9% of my friends are non witnesses (note: we have only been in this shite 6 years and i never changed the person i was before)
3. her side of the family have alot of witnesses and non witnesses...of whom we don't have any contact with them.
4. her sister and her sisters boyfriend are both disfellowshiped and we have a good relationship with them. no shunning
5. we are always late to the meetings and miss often.
6. we are private people and don't like anyone to nosy in our lives.
7. a year ago i stepped down has an MS.
8. I don't answer at meeting and neither does she. ( note: i have told her i would not stop her in doing anything related to the BORG..so it is all up to her)
9. We have family study from the bible and only the bible. i have told her i will not study the WT or awake!
Problem is this....i believe she has been cultified by some of her thinking about the GB and Organization has a whole by some of her actions and defense of the BORG.
I just wish she would see this. but like Phizzy says she needs to find TTATT on her own.
Shalom
GTTM