Posts by goingthruthemotions

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Just found out their about to baptise my 14 year old boy.

by Crazyguy in

there doing this right under my nose but i just found out.

not sure what to do but would like your help on getting me wt information on my headship role and how they shouldn't be doing this with out my permission.

also would like some help on showing my son the ramifications on what happens to someone when they get baptized and how they'll expect him to treat me.

goingthruthemotions

are you still married? i would get a court order to stop it! it's for his safety,

he is still your child....do you share custody?

a little more info on your role with him would be helpful to help you.

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Fighting about college

by cognac in

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my nephew is a sweet, smart, thoughtful person.

he wants to go to college.. normally, a mom would be proud to have a son like this.. nope, not a friggin jw mom.

apparently, he's being selfish to both her and jehovah.

goingthruthemotions

this sucks Cognac....something that would be a no brainer for a normal person or family.

i was thinking something similar earlier....my youngest son wants to do halloween this year or do a birthday, but NO! my wife blows a gasket. something so simple, a no brainer for normal people.

for this reason and many more....i hate this cult. it has ruined my family and marriage.

i really don't know what i am going to do.

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Paranoia after today's Watchtower

by Truthexplorer in

boy oh boy did i feel paranoid at today's wt.

not only are we to watch our associations outside of the congregation, but also watch our associations 'within' the congregation.

this was emphasised by the wt study conductor.

Talking to Jesus

by Kiana in

hi.. do jehovah's witnesses talk to jesus?.

thanks..

goingthruthemotions

jw's have no clue who jesus is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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need input: why does my wife do this. when at the meeting she is always nodding her head in agreement

by goingthruthemotions in

so this is just so nauseating to me when she noddes her head in agreement and in a low voice or sound does a "mmm uh" in agrrement.

but here is the deal, she never aswers at the meetings.

she doesn't go out in service often.

goingthruthemotions

Sabin: i have to go on occasion...if you read my previous posts. i don't go because i want to...i go to the meeting for 2 reasons.

1. to try and keep the peace with my wife.

2. protect my children, whom are made to go by my wife. from preditors in the hall.

but, i truely hate going....i so disgusting to go.

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need input: why does my wife do this. when at the meeting she is always nodding her head in agreement

by goingthruthemotions in

so this is just so nauseating to me when she noddes her head in agreement and in a low voice or sound does a "mmm uh" in agrrement.

but here is the deal, she never aswers at the meetings.

she doesn't go out in service often.

goingthruthemotions

so this is just so nauseating to me when she noddes her head in agreement and in a low voice or sound does a "mmm uh" in agrrement.

but here is the deal, she never aswers at the meetings. she doesn't go out in service often. she doesn't study the bible. only the watchtower trash. she doesn't have reasoning ability. this action is just annoying has all F%&k.

why does she do this.

1. to show the elders and everyone around her that she agree's with whats being said?

2.to show me she agree's with what being said?

for those of you that did this when you were in. help me understand, why?

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Hubby has been doing research on the internet!!!!

by atacrossroads in

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my husband was recently subjected to an intervention by his parents.

i am apparently a danger to his spirituality.

after i stopped attending meetings and went apostate hubby decided to resign as a ms to spend more time with me.

goingthruthemotions

bravo!!!!!!!!!! i wish mine would go the same...things for me just keep getting worse and worse.

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Scale of 1 to 10. How did/do you rate the meetings!

by Truthexplorer in

1. boring as s***e 2. extremely boring 3. boring as hell 4. boring.

5. slightly boring 6. not bad.

7. fair.

goingthruthemotions

0. a complete was of time!!!!!!!!!

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Hilarious Whatsapp message received - FIRST day after Big D

by cognitivedizzy in

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a hilarious stupid wa message is being circulated amongst jws in my area / country.. i had a hearty laugh at the ignorance and stupidity and brainwashed mentality, different people may express different emotions so you have been warned.

day one after armageddon it seems ages since we last heard the gunshots and screams, today has been really quiet.

the last few weeks have been sheer terror.

goingthruthemotions

i could only read a few paragraphs before i started feeling disgusted.

what a fairytale, BARF.

i am sure through and through dubs who read this are in their glory and filled with something.

disgusting.

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Stranger in my own house, Since my wife and i don't talk much anymore nor sleep in the same bed. i feel like a stranger.

by goingthruthemotions in

my wife is shunning me.

she is always in cult mode, we don't talk anymore, we don't sleep in the same bed.

i have been sleeping on the couch.

goingthruthemotions

thank you everyone for you advice.

i would like to say first that i am not spineless and I do stand up for myself.

but, has i have gone through life...i find arguing to be a waste of time, especially with a dub.

i also feel that each and every person has free will. she has free will to stay or not, to love or not.

unfortunately i am the recieving end of this.

i will not fight for someone who is not willing to fight for me. why?

life is to short....many on here know this.

there are 2 things i want right now in my life.

1. to be happy

2. to be cult free

GTTM