We had an Elder in our congregation who's kids seem to get away with all sorts.
One daughter was pregnant when she got married. She and the guy were just "reproved".
A younger daughter was known to be having sex with her guy. Common knowledge. No one said a word.
Oldest son caught using cannabis, on the same day it was announced he had become a Min Servant. He had already been "reproved" a couple of times beforehand for other things. He went off and married a non-JW. Came back as if nothing had happened.
The Elder himself was removed having been caught smoking.
Another Elders son was caught smoking and disfellowshipped. This Elder resigns in protest at the double standard.
A brother who was a good friend of mine developed depression, attempted suicide. The elders answer to this was to have his wife throw him out of the family home. Eventually he left the JW's and disassociated.
But I know of others in congregation who also suffer from depression. Sisters who are knocking back the Prozac and Valium like anything.
A couple of members who are alcoholics, often found drunk at home.
A married brother who was a pioneer and Min Servant, who twice had affairs with women on his window cleaning round. DF'd -reinstated, DF'd - reinstated.
All those who got away with either a reproof or ignored. Where related to Elders either in our congregation or others.