Thomas,
The Ernest Elders? Disfellowshipped. Broke, broken, divorced. Dead.
this morning i was in our front yard sitting down pulling weeds when i saw 3 people slowly walking on the sidewalk in my direction.
2 of them were young, handsome, clean shaven, wearing nice crisp white shirts and perfectly tailored black slacks.
they could have been mormons except.... there was a 60ish portly woman wearing a frumpy dress and ugly sandals.
Thomas,
The Ernest Elders? Disfellowshipped. Broke, broken, divorced. Dead.
i went to a christening at a church today, a black church.
it was an incredible experience!!
women were an active part of the service, and the people were very welcoming.
South Central, I am glad you had a good time.
There is a lot of variation even in JW Halls. I found JW Black and Hispanic congregations I was a member of in Brooklyn and California, much more welcoming and friendly. The comments and music were more lively, and some halls ignored headquarters' rules and had picnics and ball games.
There is a non Denominational church a block from us and a Unitarian church that send out neighborhood invitations for Classical music concerts, Madrigal concerts, and various events. We have never attended any events. I think Watchtower$$ poisoned that well for us.
my family had several elders, ministerial servants, auxillary pioneers etc, so it certainly wasn't one of those 'barely in' families.
but in certain small ways, i think mine were slightly less hard line than some other families i've heard stories about over the years.
one example was the 'fall dinner'.
Every Thanksgiving weekend my extended JW family had a Thanksgiving Dinner(including Elders, Gilead Grads, Ex-C.O.s.). Lots of wine, Turkey, gravy, potatoes, yams, stuffing. A real mini family reunion. Invariably one of my cousins would say "Isn't wrong to celebrate Thanksgiving? " The adults would respond "We all have the day off, Turkeys are on sale...AND Pagans didn't celebrate Thanksgiving." After a long prayer, we all dug into eat! YUM!! Pumpkin Pie and Scotch for dessert. lol :)
this morning i was in our front yard sitting down pulling weeds when i saw 3 people slowly walking on the sidewalk in my direction.
2 of them were young, handsome, clean shaven, wearing nice crisp white shirts and perfectly tailored black slacks.
they could have been mormons except.... there was a 60ish portly woman wearing a frumpy dress and ugly sandals.
I'll PM you Dagney.
No sense getting double double ostracized by any peeping tom relatives cruising the site. :)
3rd gen has been getting better and better at " informal anti-witnessing" around town. Always willing to smile hug, and get in a few though provoking zingers.
The word must be getting around however. A few young moms looked like they saw a ghost and made a quick exit when they saw her shopping last year.
the last assembly i attended was over 10 years ago.
the monotone speakers, boring talks, uncomfortable seats, long prayers and nodding off after the lunch break did me in.
i survived the morning sessions, but the afternoon sessions were brutal.
Disgruntled Fool,
No it was an earlier one. Mid 60s. I just remember a rain storm we wore plastic bags for. Followed by extreme heat, when my mom fainted and fell on the stairs. ...and DISNEYLAND!! I must have been about 7-8.
the last assembly i attended was over 10 years ago.
the monotone speakers, boring talks, uncomfortable seats, long prayers and nodding off after the lunch break did me in.
i survived the morning sessions, but the afternoon sessions were brutal.
ST GEORGE, Wow. I didn't know that about Van Morrison.
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the last assembly i attended was over 10 years ago.
the monotone speakers, boring talks, uncomfortable seats, long prayers and nodding off after the lunch break did me in.
i survived the morning sessions, but the afternoon sessions were brutal.
All those week long conventions with new new new "life saving information". All I can remember is hunger, cold, heat stroke and sunburn....oh...and some multi colored books we were told to destroy years later.
Oh! I do have one fond memory of Disneyland when we attended LA once. :)
the last assembly i attended was over 10 years ago.
the monotone speakers, boring talks, uncomfortable seats, long prayers and nodding off after the lunch break did me in.
i survived the morning sessions, but the afternoon sessions were brutal.
:) lol Hell NO!!!!
The last assembly I attended with 3rd Gen was over 10 years ago.
Cow Palace, San Francisco.
Saturday lunch rolled around. (We had just been subjected to mind-numbing ridiculous demonstrations of "Happy normal JW families" having the morning day text over breakfast. Ummmm...., don't these people have to get up before the sun to commute to work and school at different times? In what world do families have leisurely breakfasts (mom has time to cook?!) and day text discussions without a care in the world, or fear to be to a job on time? lol. ) Well after that stupid demonstration, lunch rolled around, and we headed towards the restrooms. EGADS!!!! the ladies' facility STANK ... horribly 100 ft from the door. So we decided to stop by our hotel just a mile away.
30 minutes later we looked at each other and decided it was such a nice breezy Saturday... let's be tourists. We had a lovely day and skipped the rest of the Convention. No lightning bolts hit us.
We had just finished reading "Crisis of Conscious" and the threads about Menlo Park on this site. It became our last Convention. :)
Nope, no more Conventions!
mark jones writes:.
if they were spied upon and it was reported to the elders they’d be “invited” to a judicial committee whereupon they’d be cross examined in a locked backroom by three men acting as judge and jury to decide if they are guilty.. .
if the elders decide that they are guilty, they’ll then decide if the person is sorry.
What would happen? Depends. Are there TWO witnesses? A Confession? If not, zip.
I have seen many PIMO JWs "get away" with almost anything for years by doing the old "deny and counter allege" routine. If only ONE person reports something, the "sinner" denies everything, states someone misunderstood, made a mistake, or is slandering, and demands to confront their accuser.
The long-term effect is earnest honest people who confess, get disfellowshipped, and devious liars rise to the top.
Longhair gal. YES. Any SINGLE sister with a nice figure is bound to raise eyebrows with every Church lady or insecure female in the Hall. lol.