where i had come from the case was how many different khalls can one be privileged to visit as to even find someone to like let alone marry.
since usually in rural congs there are few if any suitable mates to begin with. they settle.
try being a divorced woman, and find a mate, forget it, you'd have to go outside the org.
I suppose now its how many wont get baptized [or get df] so they can find a mate anywhere then 'get back in'
later if they want.